Biography Alexander Tesler

Good morning at the FM Finams! My name is Elena Likhacheva. Literally in the last weekend, I chatted with my acquaintance psychologist, who, you know, complained, sighed deeply and said: “Frankly, I don’t know if there are enough psychologists in Moscow for everyone this fall. Firstly, the syndrome of leaving leave, and secondly, everyone who is now hoping in the fall to correct their financial situation, and so on, and so on, perhaps all of them, and all of them do it, and all of them do it, and all of them do it and all of them.

- Also my clients. " But this is about psychologists. I wonder how the situation is in Moscow with psychotherapists. Today we will talk about this with a very famous psychotherapist in our Moscow Alexander Tesler. Hello, Alexander. Thank you for having come to us today. So, I will present you-Alexander Tesler, not only a well-known psychotherapist in Moscow, but also a full member of the Russian Academy of Medical and Technical Sciences, academician.

Has the life of people, not only psychologists, but also psychotherapists really changed? After all, this is already more serious a profession. By the way, explain the difference? Because people still do not know how the psychologist differs from the psychotherapist. They are confused sometimes. Because a psychologist is a humanitarian profession, a person is engaged in either social psychology or medical psychology.

A person who is engaged in psychology is not a doctor. A psychotherapist is a psychiatrist who is engaged in borderline psychiatry, neurosis, all kinds of reactive conditions, sexological problems. So this is a slightly different diocese. Although very often psychologists and psychotherapists work in collaboration. I had the honor to be present when creating a trust phone more than 25 years ago, and worked not only with wonderful doctors, but also with amazing psychologists.

And believe me, a team with good psychologists gives an amazing result in the treatment of patients. For many years, you have been engaged in neurosis, depression, these borderline conditions. Your life over the past year, a crisis year, has somehow changed? Maybe the requests have changed, maybe you have more or fewer customers, maybe the quality of customers has changed?

Tell us about it. Because they are visited, in principle, healthy people. We are visited by people with some disorders of the soul and body, and this is still patients. That is, the doctor is visited by patients. Without a single neurosics, not one at all? What does it mean “without a single neurosics”-a person has a problem that causes a certain psychological fixation, and some psychological, mental problems, maybe even somatic problems in connection with these matters.

Of course, there are many such people, because the wildest pace is absolutely. Especially in Moscow, Moscow is a passing yard. I was recently in the provinces - quietly, calmly, gleam, the sun rises, people walk through the woods. I think: “My God, where am I? Still, the pace is different. True, and the salary of others. The quality of your patients has changed, there are more of them or fewer?

The same problems-usually my colleagues, medical psychologists, psychotherapists are always crisis. That is, when I hear in the news or read in the newspaper that there was some problem or tragedy, the wing of the Akvaparka fell, They blew up the train in the subway, and something-I know for sure that in a day or two I will begin to call my acquaintances and unfamiliar people and ask to advise people who fell under the hand in Dubrovka, and so on.

I am still dealing with people who have passed this males, this meat grinder. So we are not very related to questions whether there is a crisis or not a crisis in the country, because there are crises both personal and large, global crises. We are all the time in the problem of crisis. The only thing that, of course, has changed the problems of people. People took loans, people do not know how to give loans and, in general, quite normal, calm, adequate people suddenly switched to a facet of a breakdown, because they do not know what will happen in the future, because they are not responsible for those obligations that they took over recently.

Indeed, a person received a nervous breakdown. He had three children, two loans - a mortgage, a car on credit, in general, a classic situation. There was no work, there was practically nothing. I understand that the fact is that when all this has collapsed, a person is at a loss, and a person needs to give the opportunity to slowly gather his thoughts and quietly, calmly begin to catch up with what you can catch up.

There is always a less paid work, you have to work more, to dangle on various work. For a doctor, this is a well-known thing, I remember that under the Soviet government they managed to work at seven to eight work, and to receive a little by little, this is not necessarily one highly paid work. In difficult times, you can somehow slightly change the pace, and fulfill the obligations taken.

Is there some kind of corporate way? I understand that giving such recipes on the radio - "Ha! We must do this!But still, maybe there is some of your own, signature way, how easy it is to come to your senses, calm down, and then just see the decisions that, perhaps, there are already, you just need to see them? There is a prism in front of my eyes, a depressive prism, an alarming prism, and everything that refracts through it is absolutely gray and terrible.

And when you remove this prism, reduce the level of anxiety, withdraw a person from a depressive state, it turns out that problems are transferred to the category of tasks to be solved. It turns out that not everything is so bad, you are, there is a head, hands, and there is an opportunity to realize yourself. Moreover, many people in such situations, indeed, seems to be paths, find a way out of the situation, and this helps them for the rest of their lives, because in a simple situation to work is a pleasant thing.

But when there is no work - find a job, and, frankly, prove to yourself that you can do this is a lot. When they prove something to themselves all their lives, and then it turns out that it was necessary to just live, and not prove to someone, to themselves? Recently I was amused by my second cousin, who came from Germany. He bought a good, dear, big jeep, and his son, the summer, who has already received German education, said: "Dad, only men with a small member can drive such large cars." To which dad said to him: “But look what a car is carrying it!

I am at a party, I remind you, a well-known psychotherapist in Moscow and a full member of the Russian Academy of Medical and Technical Sciences Alexander Tesler. Good morning again. You still listen to FM FM. We are visiting a well-known psychotherapist and a real member of the Russian Medical and Technical Academy of Sciences Alexander Tesler. Hello, again, we will not finish this topic yet.

Maybe there are more of them, some specific, or certain neuroses began to appear more and more often in those who are being treated now? And, undoubtedly, anxious people who predict enough quite conditionally and with the corrections, these times are difficult, especially on television, on the radio there is a sufficient roll of negativity. And people who read Russian newspapers before dinner and listen to radio and television, of course, in general, let's say directly, do not acquire in the figure.

Nevertheless, there is a positive moment of the crisis, because in stable times there is a wildest race, the wildest pace. And the crisis allows you to sometimes stop, look around and choose for a while for something, let's say directly, even not only related to work, but higher positions. I returned the day before yesterday after one amazing project. In the Pushkin Mountains, in the Pushkin reserve, a joint project of the Ministry of Education, the Demidov Fund was implemented, the administration, respectively, of the Pskov region, participated in it, and most importantly, employees of the Pushkin reserve.

About 60 children were brought from orphanages from all over Russia with teachers, and for three weeks the children were immersed in the atmosphere of Pushkino. I don’t know, maybe this is still a lot, for three weeks in the Pushkino atmosphere, I stayed there for only five days, but the children were engaged in the circles of fine art, the children were engaged in skillful recitation, vocal, poetry, they were taken from excursions.

And the children who went through such a meat grinder arrived. If you remember the film "Woundings" - this is so, the flowers still. Moreover, they selected children in orphanages, who were really problematic. And, having arrived completely closed, protected, in these three weeks they opened, participating in the final concert along with, indeed, wonderful artists. There was a beautiful singer Sheremet, read poetry, such an actress - Chizhevskaya.

Many interesting people performed. They are busy people for today - all the same, they found time to come to the children, to work out with the children. Some for a day, some for three days, some for five days. However, it was very interesting. I saw how the children opened, warmed up, this was a breakthrough into another dimension. They began to understand that there is another world, and they can be absolutely integrated in this world, as in any principle of a prosperous person.

I do not specifically use the word "normal", because the norm is very conditional, this is the boundary of the norm. And people with a broken fate, falling into those boundaries where people live in principle with a calm life - they understand that this life is on the shoulder, they have stereotypes, family ideals, they have a future. Just charity is some kind of conditional name, all the time when there is an opportunity, I look at the children, adults problematic, who cannot always get help due to the fact that they do not have Russian citizenship, some kind of insurance, and so on.

This is normal, I think.If we take into account that I am a third generation doctor, my grandfather at the faculty studied at the king, then this is all quite granted.